I'm beginning to understand and accept that every person have their own happiness. And if you try to question them "why are you happy doing that?" then there's a problem with you.
You don't expect people to also have the same happiness as yours because you grew up separately and your experiences are unique. The things you love maybe the things they hate and vice versa. There are people who love to travel, there are people who love to eat, people who want to collect gundams, people who want to buy expensive stuff, people who want to hoard money and what not. As long as their happiness doesnt hurt anybody, then theres nothing wrong with that.
If by chance that your happiness does not apply to others, then don't enforce your happiness to them. Say for example, you love to save for millions in your bank account, your ultimate goal, the thing that you think will give you happiness. Then there's a person you know who loves to travel. Then you're irked everytime you hear another travel plan from that person because you think that unlike you, these people are not saving money! then you start to judge the person. What you do not know is that the person worked for all his expenses and you contribute nothing to that. So if he decides what he wants from his money then thats out of your business.
Open your mind because if the world only contains people who think like you, then how boring that world could be.
You don't expect people to also have the same happiness as yours because you grew up separately and your experiences are unique. The things you love maybe the things they hate and vice versa. There are people who love to travel, there are people who love to eat, people who want to collect gundams, people who want to buy expensive stuff, people who want to hoard money and what not. As long as their happiness doesnt hurt anybody, then theres nothing wrong with that.
If by chance that your happiness does not apply to others, then don't enforce your happiness to them. Say for example, you love to save for millions in your bank account, your ultimate goal, the thing that you think will give you happiness. Then there's a person you know who loves to travel. Then you're irked everytime you hear another travel plan from that person because you think that unlike you, these people are not saving money! then you start to judge the person. What you do not know is that the person worked for all his expenses and you contribute nothing to that. So if he decides what he wants from his money then thats out of your business.
Open your mind because if the world only contains people who think like you, then how boring that world could be.